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Can I fight my way back?

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Question - (25 January 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2006)
A female , *lex writes:

How can I get back into the heart of a guy I love who once loved me but says he doenst anymore because I tend to be too agressive?

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2006):

willywombat agony auntDon't try and walk away with your dignity intact and your head held high. Make a new life for yoursself. Learn to live without him. If he wants you abck he'll come running when he sees you don't need him.....and who says you will want him back then anyway.....

good luck with the rest of your life...x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2006):

Sweetheart, Listen to what he has told you and learn from it and try to move on with grace. Good luck.

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A female reader, liveinabox +, writes (25 January 2006):

liveinabox agony auntDear Tlex

Are you sure you are still in love with him? Before you rush into anything then you need to seriously consider whether you are in love with him or is it just the idea of being in love and loved that appeals to you.

If you still really want him to fall back in love with you then you need to look at your aggression that you mention. Even in the title of your question you refer to "fighting" your way back. Maybe you should consider gently coaxing your way back. If he has a problem with aggression then be less aggressive.

He fell in love with you once. He can again. Think back to when he fell in love with you and remember why it was.

It's really hard to just stop loving someone.

Probably sounds easier than it is.

L

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