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writes:I went out with a pal about a year and half ago. We went out for about 4 months. But before we were really close friends. Even now, since the breakup, he tries to avoid me, (example, ill walk into a room and he'll then leave). can anyone give me some idea of what might be going through his head? It's just a shame I can't call him a friend anymore. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): I know how this guy feels i was pals with my ex before we split up and now i don't want to be around her as it hurts knowing you feel something for someone who doesn't fell it for you, leave him alone i would say, and maybe in time he, and maybe me too, will be able to be friends like before but exes can't be friends unfortunately i think.
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Ask him! what have you got to lose? Just corner him and ask what gives? I would! That's childish for him to act that way in the first place. You two were friends before and whatever drove him away could be the problem still in his mind. Ask away!
Gena Bullock
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Youve rejected him as a MAN when you broke up. Now you wonder why he doesn't want to be friends? I can't believe you even have to ask this question. It would be humilating for him.
Good luck
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reader, hanz1993  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 well hun i had this wiv 1 of my friends, we were best mates, u no the type where your always together and you do everything together, then we dated and when we split up it just wasn't the same any more.
All we needed to do was talk, we talked and everything went to just about how it was before.
So all i can really suggest is just catch him when he's in a good mood and ask him why he's avoiding you and what have you done wrong and remind him of all the good times you had when you were friends.
take care
xxx
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