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writes:Hey, i have never really used one of these things but it doesn't seem like a bad idea. i am a gay lad and i'm quite open about it but my problem is that i think i'm falling for my best friend, but his sexuality is some what questionable. he denies being gay and i also deny it for him as i get alot of people asking me weither he is gay. he comes out of a weekend with me and we always go to gay bars and he would rather go there.he has issues with people touching him or getting too close to him and he doesnt really have any realtionship with his father. he gets down sometimes and i wish i could just hug him and stuff but i dont want to loose him as a friend tho. Also him being drop dead gorgous doesn't help!! lol. and another thing that makes me feel he could b gay is that he just isn't interested in girls.if any one could help me it'd be a propa big help.
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 First of all, if you're OUT THERE then why are you telling folks you aren't gay??? Be true to yourself and then talk to your friend openly about the situation. Don't just 'wonder' about it anymore. Communicate the issue.
IT's the best way to handle a relationship--COMMUNICATION.
Gena Bullock
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): If he says he's not gay then take him at his word. His sexuality may be questionable in your mind, but in his there is no doubt. If you want to stay as friends you have no option other than to accept things as they are at the moment. If he changes his attitude he'll let you know. You can't change it for him. It has to be voluntary! If he feels he's not gay, he probably isn't.
It pisses me off that homosexuals have hijacked the word 'Gay'. It used to mean happy. It was even a girl's name. Not any more, sadly. This world is going down the sewer.
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reader, obsessive_couple  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Aww ^_^ That's cute!I personally think you should just straight out ask him. Like, if a girl liked you, wouldn't you rather her ask you if you were straight (or at least bi) and let her end her crush or whatever?I think just asking is the only way to go, and I wish you all the luck!
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