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writes:ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and my parents made me move a few weeks ago 20 hours away from my home. he came up with me for two weeks and hes been gone two days.. and im a mess i dont know wat to do with myself hes gone now and i miss him soo much..theres nothinmg to do in this small town either all i do is spend my days moping around.. i just dont know wat to do anymore :( i miss him :( /3 Reply to this Question
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reader, bella29 +, writes (15 August 2009):
bella29 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell this advice is awesome guys thanks but my problem sorta evolved a bit.. you see ive been here alone for a lil while now and its like everytime i tell him to call me he forgets or goes on msn to talk to me :s and i understand he wants to c his friends and wat not but fuck im gunna be away for a long time..and it feels like hes not making an effort i finally had a decent talk with im yesterday but i found iout tht his friends were there later on readingg every thing liek thts personal! hes really pissing me off .. i love him and he loves me too..at least he used to :(...i jusut dont know anymore
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reader, hello24 +, writes (13 August 2009):
You a now entering a long distance relationship. This means the rules have changed as you are going to spend more time apart then before. This could prove to be a test for your relationship and yourself and your guy. Success will depend on your endurance, grit and dedication. I have been there before and I have to say it is very hard, perhaps the hardest thing you will ever do. But on the bright side if it works then you guys have accomplished the task and hopefully will be stronger for it. Sometimes when we are faced with a situation like this we become closer to the loved one and a stronger commitiment can come through. So good luck and wish you the best. Keep yourself busy with other goals and don't mop around, go out with your friends and remain active.
I hope this helps.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (13 August 2009):
 It is hard and your bound to be hurting, but you've got two choices either stay with your parents, or find a job and move closer to your bf so you can see him regularly.
Sometimes as adults we have to put up with things we dont like, but they are only temporary.
the situation wont last forever. Keep positive.
Good luck
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