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He SEEMED like a genuine, caring guy, but I'm starting to feel that his words don't match his actions.

Q.   I feel a little lost. My (ex-)boyfriend of two years recently broke up with me several months ago. During our relationship he cheated on me and disrespected me in many ways. I have been very down, but I have been going out with friends and trying ...

A.   26 May 2009: Pump the brakes... you dont know this guy from Adam and you were close to having sex? Kissing someone you barely know can lead to disaster in this day and age. You are trying to replace the pain by grasping onto something incredibly unsure. This ... (read in full...)

Married to the Mob

Q.   I was married to a man whom I felt I no longer loved, so I divorced him and a couple years later, I met whom I felt was my dream lover. He swept me off my feet for 3 years we dated then finally I agreed to marry him, well almost immediately he ...

A.   26 May 2009: You have done nothing... it seems you were misled by this man in which case just pray about it and God will have an answer. I am willing to bet this drastic change in him occurred after you resigned from your job and left your home, right? Men, ... (read in full...)

Bringing that spark back

Q.   How can I bring back the spark in my relationship with my boyfriend? We've been dating for a little bit over 9 months and the feelings are kinda getting dull. We're always open for fun/new ideas and would do just about anything together....

A.   26 May 2009: Keep dating... find more interesting things to do on a date. If its going south after only 9 months, this may be a clue the relationship has run its course. Going forward, pace yourself in your next relationship. Save some things for the 9th ... (read in full...)

I have never loved my husband, and although he tries really hard, I never will. Should I divorce him?

Q.   Hi. i'm 30 years old. I've been with my husband since I was 20. When I met him I was fresh out of a relationship and wasn't really looking to get into anything new. However I met him and he was different than anyone I had ever dated..sweet, ...

A.   26 May 2009: You were wrong from the start... and to bring the baby into it was not wise. I know because I was exactly where you are, but, my husband at the time wasnt exactly as sweet as yours. It is not fair and things like this can definitely make a good ... (read in full...)

I need support from someone. Should I call my ex or let him go?

Q.   So my ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago after being together for two years. The reason was because he felt we needed space. Basically the whole 2 years was all about each other...we were each others lives.He even talked about marriage a lot.. ...

A.   26 May 2009: I'm sorry to tell you honey but this guy has just let you down easy. He dumped you without the drama of having dumped you. Instead of saying it's over he gave you false hope to keep you at arms length while he played and to keep you close so that ... (read in full...)

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