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writes:Me and my boyfriend of two and a half years have just broken up. Our relationship had gotten to the point where we were fighting every second day, and neither of us were truly happy anymore. I love him more than anything- we were best friends as well. I honestly don't know how to cope with this, because I've never had a relationship or breakup of this magnitude before. We may get back together eventually if we find that we can become friends again, but for now at least it's over. I need to know what to do and how to cope, because I feel miserable and don't know what to do with myself.
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reader, sunandstars  +, writes (23 December 2012):
Sorry to hear about what you're going through. I have been through the same thing myself and the only advice I can give you is to, for now, separate yourself from him. I know this is hard because you want to be close with him, but spending time with him will just make it harder to get over him and you will crave his love. Give yourself time to become happy as a single, strong, young woman and then consider becoming friends with him, when you are ready and know you can spend time with him without wanting him back.
Hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2012): Sorry for what you are going throughYes time heals all wounds. I pray alot about my break up. Hard to feel like I wasn't wasting time so I get mad at myself but realized that it's always ok to love and every relationship brings growth and discovery. You had a great chapter and a new one will start ;)
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