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writes:Dear Cupidmy bf broke up with his gf before he met me. at least thats what he said. they broke up because the girl dont trust him as he is coming to the university which we both are studying in right now. the x gf is back at his home town. he said they didn't talk face to face but it seems she don't want to go on because of his coming to study. he called her but no answer from her. so he ends the relationship himself by emailin to her. the thing is i know he still love her and i don't want us to go on anymore coz i don't want to get hurt. coz their relationship is longer..its 2 years. i don't know want to do..break it up with him or going on with tis doubt in me.
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reader, Karlos Omnis  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 The only issue is, if you decide to break up with him because of the "possibility" (that's all it is) that he may still love her (I really doubt that he does, because of the manner of which you have described this) then you'll be wondering what if.
Communicate your problem to him, in an unthreatening manner, perhaps when you're together in bed so you're both in a relaxed environment.
If you explain calmly why you have concerns then I see no reason why it can't be resolved.
If he overeacts then chances are he has something to hide.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): The best thing is honesty! If your upset,tell him.If you dont like how your bein treated let it be known.It doesnt matter how mwny years they have,If there is trust and love between u guys,nothin can break that.
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reader, Lila  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Not to undermine any of this but you are young and in college.I say study hard,party hard,save all the drama for the art crowd.
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reader, xLamentedxAmourx +, writes (24 October 2007):
 Instead of going on with doubt, why not ask him? Ask him if he would stop seeing her. If he broke up with her, and made a commitment to you, he should stay committed. Either that, or ask him if he still loves her. You can ultimately decide for yourself from there.
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