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writes:I currently live with a boyfriend who I love dearly and a girlfriend I also love dearly. We all share 1 bedroom for everything. My problem is My girlfriend wants me to dress more sexy like her. Our boyfriend gets kinda jelious from the attention it brings us. So he wants us to dress more conservative. Who should I try to please? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): Is there no happy medium? Wy can't you be a little sexy, but not...well, a whore about it?
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reader, Angel Baby +, writes (11 May 2008):
I honestly think you shouldn't please either. Its YOUR body, do what YOU want with it, not them. If you want to dress sexy, dress sexy. If you want to dress conservative, dress conservative. Don't let either control you. Tell them both that you'll dress the way you'd like.
And, by the way, if he's going to get mad about how you want to dress, he's not worth fighting with. =D
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reader, frumpologist +, writes (10 May 2008):
 I think that you should do what you're comfortable with. You need to keep yourself who YOU are. That's the important thing. If you want to dress sexy, tell your boyfriend that it makes you feel sexy. If you want to dress conservatively, tell your girlfriend that you'd rather keep the sexy stuff in the bedroom. :)
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reader, LouLee  +, writes (10 May 2008):
 Don't 'please' either of them, be who you want to be, do what you want to do and you can't go wrong.
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