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writes:I was seeing my bf for a year before we started dating then about 2 months after dating I fell pregnant. well 4 months went by and I looked at his ex the mother of his first child fb page to find out she was pregnant too! she was 2 weeks behind me so I asked him he said its not my baby he said that the whole way with the pregnancy. we had our lil girl thne 2 weeks later she had their son he still said it wasnt his. then 8 weeks after the baby was sick in hospital so he finally admitted it was hes baby. I was so hurt the whole way through my pregnancy but hearing those words broke my heart. well I ended up letting the baby come over and I looked after it but then few months later would say its an not his so I stop seeing the kid and he would only pick up daughter it hurts me still and its been nearly two years since he been born and we have another baby together but I still think about it every day it breaks my heart im depress
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont think im gonna stay wit him it hurts to much I think about it all the time and have no trust ur right if ur not happy better get out his doesnt care how it makes me feel he jst makes as if he has done nothing wrong he lies all the time thanks for ur help
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reader, Bonnie B.  +, writes (9 February 2013):
In my mind you only have two options fixe the relationship or get out of it. Life is too short to stay in a relationship that doesn’t make you happy. IF you decide to stay with him you need a real apology for what he did. He needs to know how much it hurt you and he needs to make amends. If you decide to leave know that by law you can get child support so you don’t have to worry about losing financial support. Do not stay with a guy just for the fear of losing resources we have laws that require him to contribute. My parents are divorced and I know that it is better to have separated parents than two parents that are unhappy together.
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