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Boyfriend ignores me, what should I do

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Question - (24 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *89456 writes:

I really don't know what to do anymore..my boyfriend is always ignoring me but he gets mad at me when i talk to other guys. hes always so rude to me. i dont get him. he acts like he doesnt care, but sometimes he can be really sweet. i broke up with him 4 times before and all those 4 times he was the one that kept asking me to give him another chance and so i did..he is so confusing. i asked him so many times to just break up with me if he doesnt want me anymore but he always says he doesnt want to..i was talking to someone and i told that guy that i have a boyfriend and he still got mad and now he wont talk to me anymore. i said sorry and explained it to him and all he said was ok bye. ..i told him that he was messed up.. and he just ignored my message..i dont know what to do cuz im gona look stupid sending him messages and he just ignores them.. i just want things to the way it used to be when he was sweet..he changed.. how do i handle this situation?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

Sweetie, by breaking up with him [4x] and then letting him sob his way back you have given him permission to treat you like a doormat!!

He know that no matter how he treats you, you will accept his behaviour. He sounds immature and controlling.

I suggest that you start thinking about moving on, he is not going to change and you deserve better.

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