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writes:hi, ive dated my boyfriend for 7 months and i ended it then because he didnt want it to turn into a relationship, he spent the next 6 months begging me to give him another chance and that he loves me and then i did, weve been n a relatiionship for 6 months now and things were great only he doesnt want to include me in his life, he wont tell his parents about my son that i had in a previous relationship and doesnt want to introduce me to his family and friends. bigger problem now i am 8 weeks pregnant and still wont tell his parents about this baby either. ive said it to him loads and he keeps makin up excuses not to tell them. should i break up with him as i want to now or am i being too hasty. this man is making me feel rejected and not good enough for him. i need your help guys. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): thanks for your reply girls i now know im not being too hasty, i talked to him last nite and he promiced he would tell them within d next 2 weeks, heres hoping he will be man enough to do it, i guess if he doent then this relationship is over. il keep you guys posted. thanks for your help it was really helpfull to me xxx
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reader, kaykay1989  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 I can only imagine how stressful this is going to be but you have to be stong and stick to your guns if he can't be a man and do this how can he be the perect father figure for this child.I agree with the other comment thats been made your not being to hasty at all. Give him an ultimatum introduce me or its over. How does he suppose he can keep a baby secret from his family? it's the more ridiculous thing i've ever heard he should be showing you off to his family. The fact he's left it this long is going to make it awkward because he hasn't mentioned you more fool him for not doing it sooner. Apart from that his parents could be missing out on a grandchild.When and if he does introduce you it will be " Hey this my girlfriend and by the way shes pregnant"Hope it all goes well. xoxoxox
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reader, person12345  +, writes (20 March 2011):
 No you're not being too hasty. This guy is obviously a loser. What kind of boyfriend tries to keep someone he supposedly loves secret from his family? If he really loved you, he'd be excited to "show you off" and introduce you to people, not try to dissociate with you.
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