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writes:Ok, so my boyfriend of a year and 3 months has a friend that he has become really close with in the past 3 months, it's a guy friend and they've become basically best mates. At first they saw eachother maybe once a week to chill and play fifa and stuff but it's starting to get really weird...I just called him (it's half past midnight) and he was all weird on the phone saying he couldn't speak for long because he only has 1% battery but then he said he was outside his mates house waiting for him to come and go to his. He said it's because they need to carry on moving his room around and he needs help because things are heavy and his housemates might not be in, and also to play ps4. It's half 12 though, I understand the fifa and stuff but why doesn't he just wait until tomorrow on his day off... He's obsessed with this friend and every minute he's not at work or with me he'll go and see him or the mate will go round. Like the other day I left my BF's house to go to a lecture and he said he'd pick me up in an hour. My lecture finished 20 mins in and I called him but he had gone to town with the friend, and I dunno it's a really strange relationship and I don't know why it's so weird...Just wondering what people think I should do? My best mates think it's strange too.Oh yeah, and also about this friend, he's basically an alcoholic and cheats on his girlfriend all the time. And my boyfriend is absolutely lovely and I trust him 100% I just think the relationship with his mate is super weird and not really normal...Thanks guys!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2014): I think your concerns are justified. It's not healthy at all.
I would question if they are drinking / or drug use involved.
You are really going to have to confront your boyfriend and basically ask the hard question, ? Is he having a physical relationship with this man?
Better to find out now, rather than be devastated later.
Either way its too unhealthy a situation to continue.
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