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writes:Ive been with my boyfriend a year and 3, weve been through loads and love each other but hes so difficult! Hes had a hard past, which maybe explains why his attitude stinks. Its always me getting frustrated and he has a care free attitude which makes me worse! He never texts me back if weve had an argument and sometimes he just doesnt care how he talks to me! He so hot headed recently and its making me upset.Everytime someone talks to him,he jumps down their throat! he knows hes doing wrong. I know he can be so much better.I try talking to him, theres no changing him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006):
So why are you with him? Because you love him?
Don't let his past justify who he is now. There are plenty of people who have had a hard past but know how to love, respect and treat their loved ones. People who infer that their past is a reason for how they act now should be avoided because they are still hurting and they will almost certainly end up hurting you.
If your boyfriend is not meeting your ideal of a boyfriend then, if you want to have a happy, successful relationship where you feel loved and respected, your choice is quite simple, isn't it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): dont try to change someone's basic nature.if u want him to change other aspects then its ok. Some people r just different and respond to situations's differently.dnt b at his throat to change things..there must b smthn bothering him.observe his behaviour and try to find out the root cause. he's had a rough past..its obvious he will b bitter.
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