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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend spends an excessive amount of time on the computer every day looking at sex sites. This seems like it is the only way he can get aroused any more. He will come to bed after hours and expect me to just please him after he is all worked up. There is no more romance in our relationship. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): Do you think he needs Viagra or Cialis? Seriously, getting aroused gets more difficult with age and he may not want to disappoint you in bed so he tries to get himself worked up this way first? He sould see a doctor and get blood tests to check whether he has the beginnings of arterial disease, the first sign of this is the circulation to the penis is weakened. It may go stiff, then collapse, even when he stimulates himself, that is a sign.If it is not that tell him to consider your feelings (tell him how it makes you feel) and cut the porn. The fact that he does this turns you OFF, while he is busy turning himself ON. A good sex therapist would really help you understand each other better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2007): hey!that's my life too- i mean exactly that, and i too am not sure what to do...see i can't tell him no-i dont know why im so crazy about someone who can be such an ass
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reader, trivium1238  +, writes (9 June 2007):
you should try and talk to him about it.wait until you have time alone and say,i want to do something else how about we watch a movie.if he says no i want to have sex or something just say NO!
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