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writes:me and my bf are in a committed long distance relationship since one year and two months..my bf lives in a house with two of his friends.5months back my bf introduced me to one of his good friends who stayes with him in the house.lets say his name is rohan(name changed).earlier rohan didn't knew about our relationship..and he used to talk with me very nicely and we became best close frnd...lately he came to knew about our relation.then also he talked nicely n last month inspite of knowing that m having a bf he proposed me!!he started flirting..he used to say me darling sweety baby..but i didnt mind as i took it in a friendly sense..n i told him that i love my bf very much.this month he crossed his limits..my bf was busy for few days so he wasn't able to call me at night..and rohan took the oppurtunity and called..and we used to talk..n one night he told me that he had a dream in which he saw that he was having sex with me in the bathroom!!and we were deeply involved!yak!i said him to stop.i told this to my bf,as i never hide nething from him.now my bf is very angry on him.rohan has gone to meet his parents..so he is not in the house..my bf is anoyed with him and so he went to rohan's room and broke the room of his lock,bookshelf...!!and he is also planning to have a fight with him.i have broken contact with rohan..but now m afraid that my bf is overreacting..or is it ok?m confused plz help.n thnx for being patient and reading this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for ur advice....:-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010): Hey,
Your boyfriend should be angry.It's understandable.
You did the right thing by cutting contact with his friend.Don't ever talk to him.He has no decency especially when he knows about your relationship.
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reader, _Katy_Did_  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 I think your boyfriend has a very good reason to be angry. However, I don't think he should be trying to fight with "Rohan" or be breaking his property. If you can, try to talk your boyfriend out of acting violent towards "Rohan". This will only lead to trouble and could possibly lead you to feel worse about the situation.
Best of luck,
Katy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010): In no way is your boyfriend overreacting, his roomate had the sheer audacity to say that he loves his girlfriend and call her up and talk about his sex dreams with her. NOT overreacting!
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