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*olly75
writes:Hello! I recently broke up with a guy who I had dated for a few months. It wasn't for lack of attraction or enjoying each others' time - basically, he didn't see it going further, so whatever. It's done and I'm moving on. Trying to anyway. Thing is - he was the best sex I've had thus far! I know I'll find another who is as crazy about me as I am for him (I thought I wouldn't after my first boyfriend, but hey, multiple dates and three relationships later...!) but I'm still not sure what to make of the sex part - what have you done to reconcile those types of thoughts/feelings? That is, how do you tell yourself or make yourself believe that you will, once again, have great sex with another?
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reader, Dolly75 +, writes (1 May 2012):
Dolly75 is verified as being by the original poster of the question You're right. Thank you. When I wrote that I was having a not-so-good moment, but after a while the rationality set in. I'm feeling better about it. Time certainly helps, as does help and support from others like friends and friendly folks like yourself. Thanks again :)
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (29 April 2012):
 HI
I dont waste time worrying about sex with the possible next relationship. Each partner is different an individual so there is no comparison. It all sounds a bit clinical when you start thinking along the lines of 'will anyone be as good as my Ex'
Just as you bring experience to the table so will the men you date. Learn and teach. Just need the vital chemical attraction
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