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B/f took money and still hasn't given it back

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Question - (11 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend has taken my money. He knew I saved all of my money as he asked for a loan of it and he promised I would get it back. I'm going to london tomorrow and he hasn't got it. Weve been together 4 months and he owes me £570 should I finish it if I ever get it back?

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (11 August 2010):

Denise32 agony auntWell, it's up to you, but personally, I'd break up with him now and write off the loan as a bad loss. Because it seems very unlikely you'll get it back.

Hopefully, if you save your money, you'll be able to replace the 570 pounds in a few months - and know not to lend to anyone else!

Sorry, but hope you enjoy your visit to London......

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010):

He has broken your trust by not paying you back by when he said he would. If you break up with him over it is up to you. I would say you have different values when it comes to money, you save for what you want and he borrows it, something lot of married couples argue about.

As a general rule it's never really a good idea to lend money for this very reason.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (11 August 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntA hard lesson to learn is you can't trust everyone. I'd take the slimeball to court if I were you and I don't even know how much an lb is but I'm certain it's enough to be worth seeing the moucher go down for.

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