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female
age
36-40,
*atasha jatoi
writes:well, my boyfriend and i have bin together for past two years..although we live very far apart but still i have never been felt so low..i have started to feel insecure over these couple of days..sum days back we had a fight because of his friend who offered him to spend a night with her..i was act. mad at him because he is still meeting her which is sumhow bothering me..and now i feel lyk he duxnt care for me which was not the case before...he is tawking to his exgirlfriend deex days although he knows dat am gonna get hurt...i dnt know wat to do...i have tried everyhting but in vain..i have already discussed it with him but it made the situation worst.. it seems as if he no longer needs me..i dont know why he is acting like dis when i ve done nothing..ve asked him m worried.. I love him sooo much and i'm not going to give up on us but dont know wat to do :( :(
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reader, always curious  +, writes (25 September 2009):
Well, first off, If yall are together, what would make him want to spend the night with another gurl?
If my bf told me he was staying with another girl, I would be upset also, there's no reason for him to have to.
Another thing you mentioned, yall live far apart from each other.
You have to be totally confident in who you are to him to be completely happy in a long distance relationship.
You also said how he is talking to his ex even though he knows your going to be hurt by it.
Why would you want to be with someone who knows what he's doing is hurting you?
I think that you deserve much better. You sound as if your totally committed, and he doesn't sound like it at all.
And to be honest, if your telling him how you feel, and that only causes more arguments, maybe that's a sign.
I believe every faithful gf/wife deserves for their man to be considerate of their feelings no matter what.
Re read what you wrote and think how would you answer this question if someone else posted it.
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