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anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years we met in the military and went on deployment right after we had an amazing relationship and friendship through it all and even though we were both in the most horrible place i was deeply in love with him well we got home about 2 years ago and ever since then everything has changed i was completely honest with him about everything i have come to found out that he cheated on me with an ex gf but he stopped before i had ever found out and he had an addiction to prescription pills he also has a son and it just adds to everything we have been distant ever since i found out he cheated on me which was 2 yrs ago i do love him but sometimes i am sad he never tries to do anything for me he never goes the extra mile for me and it makes me really sad he is so lazy and unmotivated and he is not the same person that i had met a couple yrs back sometimes i want to leave to bad but i do love him i do not know how i feel i am sad and i left such a wonderful guy for him i feel like im losing control and i am not happy but at times i am i can see us being together but he has hurt me and lied to me so much what do i do? i just do not know what do
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reader, Accarysin  +, writes (8 April 2012):
I agree with CTR, love is about trust and honesty and openess, if he can't be honest with you then he doesn't deserve to have you. Cheating is awful and lying just as bad. Walk away, it may be hard but it'll be for the best in the long-term. Good luck sweetie. xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2012): Like my grandfather once told me, when you start to question and are unsure, leave. Life is too short and you are to young to be stuck all depressed like this. The guy cheated on you (can you trust him again?) and isnt putting the effort in like he did before, he should be if he wants a second chance. I think you need to move on without him, get out there and live life, and let this experience make you a stronger person. Hope this helps and wish ya luck, youll find that good feeling again!
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