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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for over two years, but i now worry if it's working, if he's 'the one'The biggest problem that i feel we have is to do with sex.I have always loved sex, and want it, but recently, it has got 'boring'. We only do it at the weekends, once a day, so it's not as if we do it so much that it gets boring. We have introduced toys, lots of foreplay, different things, but it just never seems up to high standards anymore and it's really getting me down.The second problem i have is due to his attitude.We have a strong connection, but he never engages in in depth conversations with me anymore like he used to, despite me trying.I manage all of the money, and make all the plans for us, such as holidays, which i don't mind. But recently i've been having to repeat explaining to him everything i've planned (the me planning, doesn't bother him) over and over again, because he's rather watch t.v or movies or play the xbox. I'm tired of not being able to have a decent conversation with my own partner, and i have told him this. He always says he loves me and will try and make it better but never ever does, and i'm sick of it. I just want to feel appreciated and loved in the ways i'm missing out on (and he gives me a lot of attention other then that) please help !
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2012): Tell him he needs to shift his weight because relationships are meant to be 50/50 and this is just 100/0.
At the end of the day its really down to you to decide whether he's "The one for you or not" and from reading your post you want someone that's going to put their fare share into the relationship and he simply isn't, so to me it sounds unlikely.
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