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writes: I have been with my boyfriend a year. When we first met, usually between 2-4 times a week, we would be having sex several times a night and again in the morning. These sessions seemed to last forever. We would be all over each other as soon as we met up. The last few months things have tailed off considerably. We are now down to about once a night, once a week though we see each other for 6 nights each week and he seems to cum really quicky. It now bothers him as he thinks he isn't satisfying me though he now spends much longer on oral than he used to which is great. Im worried that this is a sign he is going off me?? Reply to this Question
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (14 July 2006):
 I dont think he has gone off you i think that he may be expieriencing some sort of stress realted time.Confront him about this and see what he says.There may be nothing wrong.But if there wasnt he wouldnt be botherig about weather he was satisfyig you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2006): I don't think he has lost intrest in you. That he is willing to meet your needs and do what he can to make sure you enjoy sex shows he cares about you.
I can say that this is a natural course for most relationships; that it is heated and more intense in the beginning.
All couples have a different dynamic.
Have you thought of reading up on how to prolong it and how to introduce new positions? How about not keeping it in the bedroom? How about a drive? *wink*
Please say that you talk and laugh with one another. Please say you can relate to one another. Please say there is more than just the hot sex.
I have to say that I thought the same of my boyfriend. Until I started to make the moves. Let me tell you...*fans self*
Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2006): No i dont think he is going off you.When you first started your relationship you was going through the honeymoon period which is more the loved up feeling.As time goes on this period fades and you become more comfortable with each other and the relationship becomes more settled.You both no doudt care and love each other as you did from the start probally more so.If it bothers you try to have a tactful conversation with him about your concerns.GOOD LUCK XXX
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