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writes: Me and this guy have been really good mates for years now and have always been attracted to each other. Nothing has ever happened between us but all of our friends tried to set us up. However, we lost contact for a while and he got a g/f who he is still with. Recently, We saw each other again and he txt me saying he really wanted to be with me and didn't feel the same way about his g/f anymore. I told him I liked him too, but said I didn't want him to finish with his g/f as I would feel bad. I haven't heard from him in over a week now! What's going on!?! Reply to this Question
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reader, Lisho +, writes (12 July 2006):
 you did the right thing by telling him that you didnt want to be the reason for him breaking up with his gf.
not many girls would have done that so i have got lots of respect for you.
Just think that if he was willing to do that to his gf then he might have done that to you. see it as a lucky escape and move on.
good luck
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (12 July 2006):
 Perhaps he has done as you said, stayed with his girlfriend. Maybe he was hoping that he could have his cake and eat it and you were not going to play that game so has gone back to the safe option, just his girlfriend. If he was really that unhappy with her he wouldnt be with her anyway. Leave him to get on with it, he wasnt a free agent anyway and was probably looking for a casual thing which would have meant you would have been hurt in the long run.
You probably had a lucky escape, and mr right will be out there somewhere, hes just not ready to show himself yet.
Take care x
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reader, gungass +, writes (12 July 2006):
Maybe he has took your advice and is stayin with his girlfriend.so be happy for them both.if he has.take satisfaction of knowing you have done the selfless option.
Love will come to you.just see
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