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Having sexual feelings towards my mate but I love my girlfriend...

Q.   I have a girlfriend who i am really happy with and love her to pieces but i have recently been having sexual feelings towards a male friend of mine, I know i am not gay cos i am in love with my girlfriend but i am having sexual feelings about my ...

A.   4 August 2006: It would appear you are having bisexual ideas towards this fiend.and by suggesting a 3 some to him was a covert gay response. be careful when considering 3 somes as they can tend to leave to difficulties afterward.just try being honest to your emot... (read in full...)

I'm a father of 4 and I'm in love with my daughter's ex-bf!

Q.   I am 52 yrs old and a father of 4. My youngest daughter as been seeing a young man for 3 years. They recently split and whilst they were apart he talked with me on the internet and we met up. I have fallen in love with him and even though i know t...

A.   17 July 2006: Male reader suggests i should leave them to sort it out.One factor that shouldnt escape is the fact that the lad is also a willing participant in the relationship with HerFather. she surely cant hope to rebuild her relationship considering he has ... (read in full...)

Should I believe what he says?

Q.   If a guy tells a girl his feelings then should she believe him or not ???...

A.   15 July 2006: short and sweet. if a guy tells you anything you,d be wiser to consider that he is after sex.and if your not.dont believe him.and let him convince you he means what he says.then and only then can you believe him. Take care.... (read in full...)

I slept with him and now he only says hi, if I was to text him what could I say?

Q.   Hi i have liked a guy for six months, he has already told me he doesnt want a relationship because he knows he will mess me around. He texts me all the time though. He arranges to meet me but never calls to say lets mett up now, i often see him ...

A.   15 July 2006: Youve allready answered your own question. Forget him he was to you what you were to him maybe.and that was a one off. So forget him.dont text him. If he had any manners he would have contacted you. FORGET HIM.... (read in full...)

Is it wrong of me wanting sex with my parents downstairs??

Q.   Hiya. I have a problem with my dad. In September, i am going to be starting college and my boyfriend will have a job by then, so that means we will only see each other at night, so we'll have to go in each others houses, the problem is my dad,he w...

A.   15 July 2006: Please remember. whilst you want your father to respect you both as legal consenting adults.You must respect his reasonable request that you both dont do it under his roof. The easy response to that is to tell your father you will respect his rule... (read in full...)

I want to be with him, he means the world to me....what can I do?

Q.   i know i'm young, i'm fourteen, everyone tells me this boy isnt worth it, but to me he means the world and i would do anything for him even though he doesnt feel the same. I went out with him 3 years ago and haven't gotten over him since, i don't ...

A.   15 July 2006: Whilst I can only speak from a boy point of veiw,I can and do understand the way you feel about this Ex Boyfriend.You state that it was 3 years ago since you went out with him, making you 11 yrs old!!at the time. you must put the obsession with this... (read in full...)

Guys turn me on more then girls, does this mean Im gay ?

Q.   WOOHAA got some confusing stuff to ask, I'm 21, never been out with a chick intimately, "still pure" lol Never felt the urge to be in a relationship, but I saw a nude picture of a hot chick the other day, I just felt embarrassed and blushed. To...

A.   13 July 2006: In my own experience it would imply that you are gay. but if you are confused then talk to gay people you know.ask how they dealt with such emotions.... (read in full...)

I found strange numbers on his phone and now he is being secretive!!

Q.   I think my boyfriend may be cheating on me as a few weeks ago i was sending a text from his mobile phone and before you pick the number you want to sent it to it gives you the last few numbers you have texted and i noticed there was a girls name ...

A.   13 July 2006: The basic point here is why can she not trust him anyway. the simple fact bein that mobile fone address books should be respected as private and personal and therefore treat as such. another pointer for distrust is Why would he be secretiv... (read in full...)

Is it wrong of me wanting sex with my parents downstairs??

Q.   Hiya. I have a problem with my dad. In September, i am going to be starting college and my boyfriend will have a job by then, so that means we will only see each other at night, so we'll have to go in each others houses, the problem is my dad,he w...

A.   12 July 2006: Seeing has how your parent have made objections to you about having sex in their house.surely you should respect that. dont assume because your boyfriends parents are liberal enough to permit it.you should not expect your parents to do so. ... (read in full...)

Asked him not to break off with his girlfriend just to be with me, and he disappeared!

Q.   Me and this guy have been really good mates for years now and have always been attracted to each other. Nothing has ever happened between us but all of our friends tried to set us up. However, we lost contact for a while and he got a g/f who he is ...

A.   12 July 2006: Maybe he has took your advice and is stayin with his girlfriend.so be happy for them both.if he has.take satisfaction of knowing you have done the selfless option. Love will come to you.just see... (read in full...)

I'm a father of 4 and I'm in love with my daughter's ex-bf!

Q.   I am 52 yrs old and a father of 4. My youngest daughter as been seeing a young man for 3 years. They recently split and whilst they were apart he talked with me on the internet and we met up. I have fallen in love with him and even though i know t...

A.   12 July 2006: My 33yr marriage is neither dull, boring, It is certainly lacking.This is because we both lack the desire to have sex.but we are still soulmates.she knew I was Bi when we got together and in the 70,s we were swingers and Possibly,I am homosexual and ... (read in full...)

Can I be friends with my gay ex?

Q.   Is it advisable to be friends with an ex that tells you they love you but don't know who they are and what they want? And that they want to be with you more that anything, but wonder if they want to be with a woman or not at the same time, and is ...

A.   11 July 2006: Not only is it advisable for you to remain friends,it is probably essential as this ex is obviously tormented .over his sexuality and emotions. so therefore you maybe able to help him with a very difficult period.If you loved him once it must have ... (read in full...)

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