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writes:I was due to meet this guy ive been speking to for 4 months yesterday(sat) which never went aheadWe speak and txt everyday and everything was still going ahead Anyway i spoke to him for around 15 mins friday nite and he said we will do somthing else instead of going football, and after he walked his dog he would contact me and let me no what was going on,Well i never heard from him again that friday nite and i txt him saying u need to let me no whats going on 2moro still no reply,Anyway i txt him yesterday morning saying whats going on today still no reply so i left it later on that evening i txt him saying so u not talking now then and have not since had a reply havent spoken to him since friday note Part of me is worried that somthing mite have happened when he was walking the dog then other mind says hes worried about meeting and feels guilty I havent tried ringing him i just thought whats the point in me doing this if hes not going to reply to my txtsAm i being stupid in thinking we r never going to meet, or should i just try ringing him, or just wait untill he contacts me???
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reader, Azza +, writes (9 January 2011):
It seems pretty clear that he stood you up after texting him three times over that time period. I would not text him again and give him a couple of days to get back in touch with you if he wants too. He needs a pretty good explanation though and like the responder below me said, make sure it checks out before giving him a second chance.
Not sure how far you both live apart to not meet in four months, but not responding was very cruel. He could have easily left you at an arranged spot waiting in the cold.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 It sounds like he stood you up.
I would not contact him again, you texted him 3 times and he never replied.
I don't see much point in insisting. If he really had some sort of accident, he cannot reply . If ,more probably , he got your messages, he does not want to reply and the more you insist the more he will hide.
Wait for a couple more days before writing him off. Hopefully, there is some reasonable explanation for his vanishing act- if you get it, just make sure it's a good one- and double check it before giving him a second chance.
The reason I sound so skeptical is that , if I understood correctly, you live in the same town or area yet you still had to meet after 4 months of daily contacts. Why ? This is strange. One would think , that , at least out of curiosity , if he had been interested in you he would have arranged a date much sooner.
There is a lot of people who use texts and social networks... basically to kill time with no intention to take it any further in real life.
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