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writes:Okay, so i am a thirteen year old girl and i kind of like my teacher. He's married, and twenty years older than me. I know that this is kind of weird, and i would never tell him how i feel. But, i just don't know what to do. I miss him on the days he isn't at school, and i talk to him all the time in class. I know he likes me as a student, because he has bumped up my grade and has given me answers to questions on quizzes multiple times. Is this normal? Help, please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank youu
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reader, KarlaMarie  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 its perfectly normal sweetie!!... :) ... when your young, having crushes on people that are older than you happens to a lot of young girls and young boys for a matter of fact.
just remember.. at your age your still finding out who you are, and feelings are confusing and hormones are always a rite pain... but its fine.. its just part of growing up!!
sometimes its easy to get confused with your feelings for an older mature man when they are being nice to you, but in this situation dont worry, its just a crush and your feelings will soon go!! :)
just keep happy and enjoy your time at school!!
xx
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 Very normal, at least by Dear Cupid standards. At your age some girls crush on pop icons.. and some girls crush on their teachers.
Whay you want to do about it, honey ?:). Nothing. Just enjoy your crush till it lasts- which will be until some cute guy around your age starts paying attention to you, I.E. probably very soon.
In the meantime, remember that this guy is a grown up man with a wife and a delicate job, so please don't embarass yourself- and him- by following him around or making puppy eyes at him OK?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): Some kids develop little crushes on teachers and celebs..but it's just a faze. It's fairly normal,but mostly amongst kids who are feeling insecure and looking up to an older man as a role-model. When you grow up a little bit, you'll probably realise that those feelings drift away..=) It's no big deal,but you must realise that he could be your Daddy!
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reader, Moose57 +, writes (11 December 2010):
Hey, don't worry. I may be a boy, but I know there are some attractive teachers out there. I'm 13 as well, so I guess I understand our point of view. My advice is to just accept you like them, but don't make any advances toward them. Hope this helped u
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