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writes: i have an amazing boyfriend, but there is one tiny problem, i need help on pillow talk, it's not that i am bad but just that i run out of things to say, any suggestions on wat i can say to him. he is tall dark and handsome. he looks like tyrese from the film 2 fast 2 furious.please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sexybum  +, writes (6 March 2006):
 So errr what do you two have in common, why are you together in the first place? I don't mean that in a rude way... I mean are you like a really intimate couple who has nearly tried everything and need freshening up? Or are you a new couple that are just getting to know each other and conversation isn't flowing easily? If you could shed some more light on the situation it would be helpful, because I'm afraid its different advice for each scenerio............If its just that you need freshenning up then why not introduce soem new stuff to your sex life. Kama Sutra playing cards are good fun, introduce a little sauce into your sex life.... strawberry or chocolate! A little imagination (or a trip down Ann Summers!) can work miracles.I'm afraid if its the other scenerio where you are anew couple and trying to get to know each other, then maybe you should slow things down until you can enjoy 'pillow talk' comfortably with each other. You shouldn't feel under pressure to need to satisfy this man. Its an equal thing that two people do because they ARE intimate with each other not because they are TRYING to 'force' the intimacy. If your situation is more like this I would highly suggest you tell your boyfriend how you feel and start communicating with him. Nows your chance to take this relationship to a new level. Only when you understnad each other properly will the rest of you love life ( sex, trust, friendship....) improve. If you two can't gain this level or he doesn't want to know then sorry to say but maybe he's not the one....Please keep us updated.....
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reader, willywombat +, writes (6 March 2006):
 Sounds like you have nothing to talk about because you are too in awe of this guys looks. Remember he is only human too!! He is not perfect!!
To be honest, it makes me laugh (and not in a good way) that people can have sex with each other, before they can have an intimate conversation comfortably. You will exchange body fluids but cannot talk to him....
sheesh!
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reader, smeedle +, writes (6 March 2006):
 Lucky girl, with him in my bed pillow talk would not be needed, actions speak louder than words.
If you really want to turn him on then just tell him your fantasies, but actual physical touching will do just as well, relax and just do what comes natural.
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