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Any ideas on how to "let him down easy"?

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Question - (15 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2008)
A age 30-35, * writes:

This guy (who I can't stand) keeps asking me out. I'm not use to guys "crushing" on me. I rejected him before but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working. I really don't want to his feeling. Any ideas?

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A female reader, lois-mcphee United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2008):

lois-mcphee agony auntheyy ...snap the same has happened to me just before we broke up for the holz..its annoying right, he follws you everywhere he looks at you all the time and keeps asking you out the thing i did was simple i made friends with him and tol him that e should be mates becuz if we did have a rlationship then i wouldnt stay friends with him so he decided to lay off the idea try that and see if it works out...hope for the best lol...

n if not try that then im sure hell eventually get the message when you keep rejecting him!!!xx

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A female reader, kelly hunter United Kingdom +, writes (15 August 2008):

kelly hunter agony aunthi my advice wud be to jst tell him firmly that u dnt want a relationship wiv him and dat u jst want to b frends sorry but sumtimes u jst ave to b firm and honest!!.

wb n let me know how things go.

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A female reader, Kindness United Kingdom +, writes (15 August 2008):

Kindness agony auntyes sometimes you just have to get through to some people so try saying something like. ''ive told you no! more than once. so just drop it please ok?'' i would say something like that. this might seem harsh but you dont want him pestering you. hope this helped X

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (15 August 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntSometimes you have to be firm. Next time he asks you to go out say, "No thank you I see you as a friend only."

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