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writes:I have been seeing a guy for about two months now. I wouldn't give him the time of day at first and when I did he was absolutely wonderful. Problem is we work together. I was at lunch the other day and another co-worker told me he was bragging and that he was playing me. I confronted him and was not very nice. I realized I was in the wrong and the co-worker was trying to split us up on purpose. I have tried to make things right but he has been very standoffish towards me. Tonight I told him I wish he would stop acting like this and let me fix things and that I wanted him to forgive me. After a long argument and my many apologies he told me to just let him cool off.. What should I do and is there any chance he will come back??
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reader, kalykush +, writes (7 February 2011):
 thats all you really can do... good luck though :) and if it doesnt work out at least be civil to each other since you do work together... this is why most companies have a no dating rule...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I talked to him today and he said that he is not bitter about the situation and the we will see what happens.. So who knows.. I will give him about a week and if I don't hear from him I will move on..
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reader, dollface1  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 firstly relax.
If he truelly cares he will come back to you.
In the mean time give him time to cool off, think of it as some me time, keep yourself and your mind occupied with making yourself hotter , maybe that will speed up the process.
I'am also dating someone i work with and there are nosey parkers here to, when you guys get back together make an aggreement not to talk about your relationship to co-workers, thats what your close friends are for. keep your work and personal life separate that way you avoid this ever happening again.
and pretend like you ok, don't be to clingy either.
if he doesn't come back to you in a week, move on.
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reader, kalykush +, writes (1 February 2011):
not if you bother him about it and keep pushing him to get over the fact that you listened to a co-worker instead of maybe calmly approaching him about it.
you just showed him you dont trust him. why would he want to be involved with someone who doesnt trust HIM but trusts RANDOM PEOPLE...
give him space... apologize again in a few days or a week... if you see no change move on
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