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writes:My birthday is coming up and my boyfriend says he is going to give me two gifts. One that I will really enjoy, the other is going to hurt. I asked him about the one that is going to hurt, and he tells me just wait and you'll see, then he puts his hand on his belt and gives me a funny look. I think he wants to give me a spanking or a whipping with his belt. He has spanked me before, but not with his belt. Any advice on preparing for a good whipping? Reply to this Question
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (29 January 2012):
 For full disclosure so that no one freaks out, I want to let every reader know that I -very much enjoy- impact play and my relationship with my husband is totally consensual and healthy.
I've been spanked many, many times, especially by my husband. Bare handed, with a belt, flogger, paddle, you name it and it's probably been used on me. The critical thing for preparing for impact play when you're going to be the Bottom is you must be properly hydrated and make sure your blood sugar is stable. Eat a light meal about half an hour to an hour before hand and drink a very large glass of water. It's also a good idea to go pee before you get spanked, full bladders can be uncomfortable during impact play.
Discuss a safeword with your boyfriend and if you need to use it, -USE IT-. There is absolutely no shame in enjoying impact play and there is absolutely no shame in needing to stop anytime.
Enjoy your birthday spanking!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2012): if you guys are into that kind of thing, then just go for it, nothing really to prepare with/for
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he might be joking... you should ask, because underneath the joke is probably him trying to tell you that he likes that sort of thing
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He likes that sort of thing, and you dont, in which case just tell him no.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (29 January 2012):
 You want to be hurt for your birthday?
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