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Any advice on having a good time without having sex?

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Question - (20 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am sleeping at my boyfriend's house on Friday. We are having a movie night and he asked me if I wanted to stop over. At first I was a bit apprehensive as we haven't been going out very long (just over 2 months), but it is a very fast paced, passionate relationship nothing like anything I have experienced previously, I trust him completely and it feels like I have known him my whole life! :) I am his first girlfriend so he is no player and he is sweet and innocent and caring everything a girl would dream about!

But what do you do when you sleep at a boys house?

I never have done before and I want to show my boyfriend I love him, but I don't want to have sex with him in case I get pregnant and I am not 100% body confident!

How do we have a good and satisfying time without going the whole way?

I don't think he has deliberately asked me over to have sex as he is not like that... but inevitably being in a house ...home alone all night, laying close together on his bed watching DVDs , after a few cans, no doubt things will get steamy :P

So any ideas to spice things up a bit for my inexperienced boyfriend that I want to show my love to :D ?

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (21 June 2011):

RAINORFIRE agony aunthmmmm.. theres ways to have a good time without sex but you will probably end up having sex.. but any way after your good and drunk you can give him a massage..or a BJ or a handjob but dont ask him just reach down his pants and go for it somethings are better as a surprise

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