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writes:rite im 14 year 10 and me and my boyfriend r juss the average teenagers but the problem is sex i lost my virginity to him about six months ago at a party wen we were drunk but wen we do have sex theres juss one problem for e.g we were in his house the other day and we went up to his room and played cod for abit and wen we decided to have sex he always go really hard on me and doesent stop and then he wonders why we dont have sex as much anymore wot should i tell him the next time he wonts to have sex ?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (23 December 2010):
 The same guy who lies to you about protection, yes?
He doesn't seem very considerate of you at all. A guy who doesn't care about your sexual needs and protection in the bedroom is not a guy who has your best interests in mind. Maybe you should think about that...?
Anyway, to fix this you could always take a little more control and show him what you like. Lead by example. Talk to him - tell him that you'd like it slow. Trust me, it will sound sexy coming out of your mouth if anything!
Good luck. And seriously, maybe you should reconsider this guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): It's possible he was in "the zone" after CoD. Have you ever played it? He might think of it as a rush so he was all wound up and it just happened to be rough.
It's an awesome game really. I'D want to have hard sex after playing as I'm completely in this weird "I am so awesome right now" zone, but hey... that's just one opinion.
ANYWAY! Tell him. Just confront him and tell him you don't like it that hard and you don't feel comfortable having sex with him when you have no faith that he won't be too hard. Explain to him what you want and need and how sometimes hard =/= good.
Another point. You're 14. Maybe getting drunk at parties isn't the most productive use of your time. Perhaps priorities need to be set so you can have the confidence to confront your boyfriend with your wants and needs, in and out of the bedroom. Also, please remember to use protection. Hard or not, a baby takes the fun completely out of CoD. :)
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reader, katie16 +, writes (23 December 2010):
The only thing you can do is sit him down and explain this to him. Make him understand this from your point of few. I do not know you but please be safe, your so young and so fragile. Im 16 now and started haveing sex when i was 12, i regret it so much now, please be safe. Good luck.
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