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writes:Ok, so another advice;For valentines day I bought this really sexy little outfit ( btw, today was the day my bf moved into his new place and our offical 1 yr ann. Is comming up on the 28th) anywho, so I bought the outfit and a lamp he likes; told him for vday he gets the lamp or a ' special gift'; and after I sent a picture of the outfit to him; now we've talked about tryin something new to spice things up; he hasn't answered ya or nay to the outfit, am I trying too hard?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (11 February 2012):
 Most guys love it when a girl "throws herself at him." You can continue to do that, if you are so inclined.... OR, you can behave a little more demurely and see if this guy really gives a darn about you..... You can't do both!!!
Good luck....
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reader, egalO3 +, writes (11 February 2012):
egalO3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol thanks, that's how I feel about the situation; but was thinking maybe I trying either to hard, or at the wrong timming, even though tues is vday.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (11 February 2012):
 That is weird.
If my a woman I was attracted to that I had been dating for a year spiced it up and bought a little outfit, I would tell her to try it on and see what she thinks. While she was trying it on and still on the phone, I would be driving to her house. I would say I had to go, knock on your door, and then get on you like white on rice.
However, he could be genuinely busy. However, as the saying goes, if you want to make it happen, you will make it happen. He could have very easily said to you that he liked the picture. IT is a matter of looking at the email, typing in, "oh wow, that is so sexy! I can't wait to tear that off you" or soemthing to that extent.
This concept of really caring but not showing it is BS.
Honestly, it could be going both ways.
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (11 February 2012):
 Moving is no small undertaking and your boyfriend was likely very busy and very tired (and probably not alone if he had help).
Your attempts to arouse him were ill timed, I'm afraid.
Leave it alone and let him get settled in. When his house in order and has had time to unwind, he will come around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2012): I think you are , I would stop it right there and if he hasn't answered he may b busy or something. I would have given him both as a surprise , I wouldn't have mentioned it at all and then show up and give him the lamp with a trench coat then bam! Taken it off and "this is the second part of ur present"! Hahahaha it would be awesome and a little daring :)
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