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Am I supposed to do anything different with a non circumcised guy ?

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Question - (9 September 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hello.

I'm an American woman, so I'm used to guys being circumcised. However, recently began a relationship with a British guy (living over here now) and I've come to find that the norm in the UK (and most countries apparently) is not to be circumcised.

This isn't a problem at all, not a turnoff or anything. But, at the risk of sounding like an ignorant tool, is sex (oral or regular) any different? Is there anything extra I'm supposed to do or not do?

Thanks all!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2006):

I am also from a foreign country now settled in the UK and have had sexual relationships with both circumsized and non-circumsized men.

I prefer, by far...

non-circumsized men:

Spontaneous had jobs are much simpler, since no lubrication is required. (Just be gentle when you masturbate him and don't pull the skin too far in any direction). Just ask him if you like what you are doing? More hand job variations.

Sex seems much smoother and softer.

The penis tip is more sensitive, since it is normally covered ny the foreskin.

And the non-circumsized penis it just gorgeous!

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2006):

DrPsych agony auntYou are not ignorant...there is no difference. Some men are circumcised for religious reasons (...it is said to enhance fertility and be cleaner), and some for medical reasons (foreskin won't retract upon erection making sex painful). However, lots of men are not circumcised and it doesn't make a lot of difference except where they have a LOT of foreskin (rare) or their standards of hygiene are not fantastic so...um...'matter' and sweat can collect under the foreskin (yum!). Perhaps something you wouldn't want to put in your mouth or elsewhere :-) but then if he wasn't reasonably clean then you probably wouldn't be sleeping with him in the first place so try not to worry and have fun! You may wish to be gentle is you are involved in any manual stimulation of his bits (i.e. hand job) as some men have sensitive foreskins and if you pull it back he may howl to high heaven!

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