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writes:Here's the story a little bit better explained. Two fridays ago, we were placed in groups and tasked the writing of Christmas cards to a chosen person. Luckily I was paired with him. During this time, he once again looked into my eyes and said "nothing" turning away. This time, though I insisted on his telling me the ordeal. What happened next shocked me:SceneThe Guy: looks at his paper. I look at him awaiting a reply.The Guy: "Is it true what White-Girl(A girl that was my "friend") told me?"Me: "What?"The Guy: "Is it true that you're...gay?"The Guy looks into My eyes. I'm quiet in surprise.Me: "Yea"I look away and back at The Guy.The Guy: "Really!?"I nod yes awaiting final reaction. The Guy smiles and chuckles as if pleased with the answer. He repeats "really?" twice more then as if collecting himself gets serious and looks at his paper.EndAfterward, he tells me hes okay with it and mumbles something along the lines of "as long as you don't come wrong at me." I didn't understand so I asked him to repeat it. He mumbles something like it again then changes the focus of the conversation. I did not get further clarification as to what he meant by it but I do plan on continuing this conversation later on, perhaps when we return or if I can be blessed with a day out with him, then on our "date." I also learned that hes known about me being gay since we were doing a hip hop routine about a month ago! That means he was fully aware of the circumstances when he placed his head on my knee the friday!!!! Hes done all of these subtle things conscious of my orientation for the past weeks we've been getting closer. In actuality, it seems to me that he began talking to me more after White Girl told him weeks ago! Additional information I collected that very day from legitimate sources is that he never lasts whenever he gets with girls. He lasts from a week to a month with no real affection exchanged. One story I heard from an anonymous by standard was that when he gets into a relationship, he practically ignores the girl eventually leading to the dismantling of the bond. But above that is the most shocking piece of information I have thus collected: he's a virgin! This is really convincing for me because though he speaks of wanting to do things with a girl, not once has he ever mentioned ever actually doing it. And the person who told me this was told by The Guy himself! It's like they said, he's a shark with no bite.In conclusion, it's my conviction that he is indeed closeted. With the evidence I have collected I feel that I have a 75% chance of being correct, though despite all the evidence I can collect, the truth can only be revealed by him. It's up to him in the end if he makes a move or comes out or not. All I must do now is wait patiently and prepared both for the best and worst, right?
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reader, Ganymedes +, writes (17 January 2010):
Sounds like a scene from Boyz in da Closet to me.
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reader, paulofessex  +, writes (31 December 2009):
 To be honest l'm a little confused as to your posting is really saying/asking.
I would say let this lad make the moves towards you, he knows about your sexuality and if he is interested in you he will make it very clear
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