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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Is it acceptable for my boyfriend in the car home after a night out (where I have made a massive effort to look good for him) to tell me that the reason he knows that I am the right girl for him is that and I quote 'no matter if I (meaning him) am coming on to other girls or they are coming on to me, you are the one I want to go to bed with.' I dont mind a bit of harmless flirting, but for me being told that he 'comes on to other girls' is a slap in the face. He is now refusing to sleep in our bed tonight because I said that his words had upset me. Am I right?
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reader, anee +, writes (22 June 2008):
 i would be upset if my boyfriend said tht to me so don think it is wrong to feel like you do coz i totally would not be happy either!!
tell him how u feel, it might not be as bad as you think.
ask him what he means by 'coming on to other girls' and how he does this.
i could be harmless flirting but i would make sure of it as it is something tht would bother me if i didnt bring it up and get a proper response.
if hes trying it on with other girls he doesnt really sound like a decent boyfriend to be honest...
good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): There's no right feeling for this,but being upset is
reasonable.Saying that he comes on to other girls or they
come to him seems very selfish and self-centered.Ask for
an apology and see if he says sorry.If he doesn't,then just
forget it.They're just a few words.His actions are bigger.
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