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Hi!

ive been in a long term relationship for about 4 yrs now, i dont no the answer to everything but i will always try to put myself in others shoes!

im also a bit crazy and freak out about lots of things!

im training to be a speech therapist so im good with ppl, so feel free to drop me a line - il do my best to help! xx

How do I know when it is OK to be sexually active? I'm 15.

Q.   im only 15 yrs old how do i know when im sexualy active because i want to have sex but then i dont want to but i really do want to have sex badly with my bf and how do i tell my bf im ready to have sex with him?...

A.   23 June 2008: you will just know its the right thing to do. i dont no how long u have been with this guy so its hard.. i was 15 when i lost my virginity but i was with the guy for 8months b4 and still am 4yrs later. i would say you have to feel 100% tht u w... (read in full...)

Is it true love?

Q.   ok. well i am 16 and my girlfriend is 15(almost 16) We have been going out for 4month. We have not once argued at all. We have spoke about adding sex and had sexual intercourse. We are still fine together. We are always together almost, as soon as ...

A.   23 June 2008: true love is something you feel inside you and therefor only u can really know. there is no age to love i fell in love with my boyfriend when i was only 14. it sounds like you guys have a lovely relationship so just enjoy it! sounds like love to ... (read in full...)

Am I right at being upset because he told me 'he comes on to other girls'?

Q.   Is it acceptable for my boyfriend in the car home after a night out (where I have made a massive effort to look good for him) to tell me that the reason he knows that I am the right girl for him is that and I quote 'no matter if I (meaning him) am ...

A.   22 June 2008: i would be upset if my boyfriend said tht to me so don think it is wrong to feel like you do coz i totally would not be happy either!! tell him how u feel, it might not be as bad as you think. ask him what he means by 'coming on to other girls' a... (read in full...)

I want to have sex again even though I know he used me in the first place. We're 15, what to do?

Q.   i've lost my virginity to this guy, who dumped me straight after. now hes asking for more sex even though i know he does'nt love me. i have more feelings for him than he has for me, though i dont trust him. hes aged 15 like me and i know he has ...

A.   20 June 2008: i really dont think sleeping with his guy is a good move. sex should have feeling and its a very close thing between two ppl. this guy clearly just wants you for sex and you deserve better then that. nobody should use ppl like this and it will onl... (read in full...)

Lets talk about sex!

Q.   Heya! Just curious about the female experience with sex; what gets you off, what do you do, what you enjoy, what you dislike, what works, what doesn't work. Obviously there are a lot of different kinks (nothing too out there, ok? lol) Usually...

A.   11 June 2008: personally im all for surprise and romance! i love the whole 'room full of candles' thing and i must say my bf it pretty good at tht sorta thing :) i like the massage thing but im deff a fan of being swept off my feet and a bit of rough and tumb... (read in full...)

Can going on the pill control periods?

Q.   I maybe sound dumb by saying this, But can the pill control periods ? Mine seem to be rather heavy and i am very self contious about them :( .x...

A.   11 June 2008: it depends of the type of pill - most women, once they have found the right pill, would agree it does reduce irregular periods. when i first started my pill i was on for a month... but now im like clockwork so i would ask ur GP and then just try... (read in full...)

He wants me to just forget about his cheating...

Q.   my husband of 13 yrs, had an affair with someone I know, lasting 18 months. I always knew there was something going on, but was told bt=y him, that I was mad. He physically abused me, continued to want sex, and told me I was ungrateful, and had ...

A.   7 June 2008: second thoughts.... leave him ... if he is physically abusing you, you need to leave him. no man should ever do this. please think what is best for you and children xxxx... (read in full...)

He wants me to just forget about his cheating...

Q.   my husband of 13 yrs, had an affair with someone I know, lasting 18 months. I always knew there was something going on, but was told bt=y him, that I was mad. He physically abused me, continued to want sex, and told me I was ungrateful, and had ...

A.   7 June 2008: im so sorry to hear what has happened to you. it seem like you have forgotten tht u are a strong woman. you do not have to live like this. if he truly loved you he would have never done these things. he has conditioned you to feel like u deser... (read in full...)

How long does it take to fall in love?

Q.   do u actually think a person can fall in love in a month?...

A.   7 June 2008: its different for every1. i new i was in love with my bf after the month or two and tht was about 4yrs ago now. some ppl say the whole -love at first sight - thing but i think it a lil time. so yes- i do believe you can fall in love in a month. ... (read in full...)

We're having sex in public behind a bush in a field! Is it wrong?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 years, things happend and at the moment we are unable to stay over at each others houses, so we meet up once a week and more than likely end up having sex, in public behind a bush in a field!.. my ...

A.   5 June 2008: its not wrong! its normal to feel like that. as long as ur not goin at it in a really public place where ppl will actually see everything! i would try and sort things out so u dnt have to do this tooo much tho. but sex can be fun and done pretty ... (read in full...)

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