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anonymous
writes:Hi all. Your advice please!i.ve been seeing this guy for around 4 months,and am quite attached to him. Anyway,can u tell me if i.m overeacting or if he,s messing me around after the following. I came back from going away to visit family yesterday. He called me on my way bk,and asked me to fone him when i got in. I tried,but his phone was off. I finally got through after two hours,as my txt went through. I then called and he said 'everythings alright! Let me call you back in two minutes'. Half an hour went past,and i got fed up,and texted him that i was going out with my freind. He texted back asking what time i would be back? I then switched off my fone,and txtd him this morning saying i got in at 4,and hope he had a nice evening. He did not respond. Am i in the wrong here,or is he?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2011): It seems to me that this guy is not reliable and/or not interested in developing a serious relationship. You did nothing wrong. I would stop and do nothing, and let him take the initiative and show what he really wants if he wants something at all. I wouldn't turn off the phone though, as I am sure you have other friends and family who should be able to reach you.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (17 July 2011):
 You have to cool it. If he's keen he'll come around sooner or later. In the meantime don't put your life on hold. He hasn't put you top of his priorities so neither should you. Go and have fun.
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reader, muso888 +, writes (17 July 2011):
I think you may have overreacted... As frustrating as it would have been! Give him a chance to explain.
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