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writes:My guy friend has been staring at me for the past few weeks. But we stopped talking (I don't know why though) but his 'last seens' were way back. So I know he hasn't been online. He talked to me twice face to face at school last week. I was hoping that he would keep throwing glaces or even talk to me this week, but he didn't.However, he was with his friends....and I know he's kinda shy. But am I just paranoid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2013): I've been playing hard to get as well. Just minutes ago, he finally texted me! So, thank you so much lovelies.
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reader, BluesMan83  +, writes (20 May 2013):
I think he is playing "hard to get" to see if YOU are interested. The best way to approach this is to tell him that you like him.
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reader, Tenderlovingcare +, writes (20 May 2013):
 Dear OP,
First of all, I think the first that we all make, is to use social networking and texts to try and figure things out. The only way you're going to figure things out is to arrange time with him. Meet up with, you say he's a close guy friend so why not? And if he's a guy friend that you can't necessarily talk to on your own, then maybe invite some friends. Just hang out? Go Bowling or somewhere that's got an activity so that it's not awkward. Then afterwards you have something to talk about.
I wish now that I could back and tell my 13, 14, 15 and 16 year old self that 'the guessing game' would get me nowhere. Guys our age always tend to be less mature than we are, so at this age you need to be the one to make the first move and by that I just mean talk to him. I understand that just throwing how you feel out there can be difficult but maybe if you got closer, then it may be easier to avoid any awkwardness because you will soon tell by spending more time together, if he is interested.
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