A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I recently met a man on a dating site, he said that he would love to talk to me if I am interested then I said yes I am. We hit it off from there. I have been on the site for 4 months, he for one year and I was going over other sites, I found out that he is a member of another site for 3 years but he stopped logging in when he met me. We exchange emails and chat online but not enough cause his job requires him to do projects out of town from 2 weeks to 20 days. He answers all my emails but chatting online is very hard.When he is free, I am asleep cause it is late when I arrange an appointment he is either out of town or renovating his house. How do you think this can work? Am I in a hurry to pursue a relationship or is this normal? We have known each other for 2 months. Many people on the site send me marriage proposals but I like this guy. Reply to this Question
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reader, nologo  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 I think that Internet is a mirror of life.But websites do not reflect all the light.The same is true about online dating: something being missed."How do you think this can work?" - It works for some people.Cannot tell whether it is gonna work in your particular case."Many people on the site send me marriage proposals but I like this guy." - It sounds like you made your choice.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (4 June 2007):
 How positive are you that he isn't married? Some married men lurk around on the online dating sites looking for their next bit on the side. Be careful, be very, very careful.
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