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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:HiWell me and my boyfriend have been together now for a good year and we're the closest we've ever been. We really really love each other and we both gave up our virginity to each other.Well anyway, I've recently noticed that during foreplay, when I'm giving him a hand job he stops me and pulls me away like after a couple of seconds. I think maybe it's because I could be hurting him or over-doing it but he doesn't say so, he just pulls me hand away and we carry on. It doesn't bother me that much, even though I feel like he's pleasuring me all the time and I'm not doing anything back. He doesn't seem to mind much if I touch him or not but sometimes I really want to. I know it's probably just a little thing that will blow over soon but I just wanted to get people's opinions and thoughts.Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): "Male reader, anonymous" is right on. The head of the penis can be sensitive, especially if the teeth are used.
As mentioned, ask why he pulls you away, is it because it is to sensitive, that it hurts.
If after he pulls you away you both have intercourse, it could be because he knows as soon as he ejaculates, there will be a down period (inactivity with the penis), this is when the penis is also very much more sensitive, around the head area.
You may also tell him what you want to do, and tell him it is something that would make you feel complete (I think that alone will turn him on).
Of course, explain to him that you feel you might be doing something wrong and don't want to do that.
This type of communication is critical in a relationship. Once you both learn to open up to it and let it flow, in all areas of your relationship, you will form a strong bond ... the soul mate bond.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): It could be one of a bunch of different possibilities - - his penis may get too sensitive and too much stimulation is "too much" - he doesn't want to come too soon - he likes to be "in control" and active, rather than a receiver - and more...The easiest way to find out is to ask him why, not accusing, but something like "I'm curious, why don't you like me doing this - I'd really like to please you the most!"
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