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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:For the past couple of weeks, my ex-boyfriend and I have been acting like we did when we were dating and have expressed our feelings towards each other with flirting and suggestions, etc. However, the few times that we have tried hanging out, something has happened that makes it so he can't. I asked him if he really wants to hang out with me even though he keeps cancelling and he said that he did, but just couldn't those few times. Am I getting ditched/played? Should I believe him and try to hang out again or play hard to get or what? I am so confused!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 If he keeps cancelling, he could be playing you. At the very least, it means that hanging out with you is a very low priority for him, otherwise he would really try his best to make time for you ,particularly after having cancelled the first time.
Let's give him the benefit of the doubt, but- observe what happens. Do not initiate anything, do not insist for seeing him, do not work around his schedule- if he really wanted to see you but couldn't, he should be the proactive one and be anxious to make up for the lost opportunity !
If he does not...let him go. After all, an ex is an ex for a reason.
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