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writes:This will sound like such a silly question..but I'd appreciate some advice incase I'm doing something stupid. I've known a guy for ages as a friend, he has always liked me but I have been in a relationship. I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and am now ready to begin dating. As luck would have it, this guy called me and asked me out for a drink - I hadn't seen him for ages - we went out and had a lovely time. We got on so well, he told me he really liked me and would love to take me out as another 'date' again. We held hands on the way home but never kissed. It was wonderful and I haven't stopped thinking about him. But..he hasn't called me. I definitely think he likes me so why hasn't he called. This was a week ago. He is quite paranoid about his looks and weight, and I have been told that I am very attractive and get approached by men alot (I hope that doesn't sound arrogant, would only write it, never say it out loud). I don't have his new mobile number because stupidly I deleted it (long story..I could kick myself!). I know where he lives and am thinking of writing him a jokey card to invite him out. Something along the lines of 'you are cordially invited to a romantic dinner at..and then my address' something like that. Is that too much or should I just leave it? Please be honest before I make a fool of myself..?? Thank you X
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): Yes write the joking letter. This guy just doesn't want to get rejected by a friend. Thats the worst... If you really liked him you should have kissed him. He would have definately called. good luck
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 June 2008):
Hee hee, I think that's a really romantic idea. Do it!! You might want to put a PS about how you lost his number in case he has been waiting for you to call, and put your number on there in case he has lost yours!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, lexilou +, writes (11 June 2008):
 It could be because you havent contacted him he thinks youre not interested. Yes send a short note/postcard with a dinner invite and explain about losing his number, tell him you had a lovely time and are looking forward to seeing him again x
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