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writes: i think i am addicted to sex. me and my bf have been going with each other for 7 months and it is quite serious. he is absolutely great at sex. not only does he have a huge package but he knows how to touch me and lick me. he sends me crazy and i love having sex with him. which is why we have sex about 14-20 times a week(not for the whole 7 month, about 4 month in all). when hes not in all i can think about is having sex with him. if he's not in i pleasure myself. we send each other pictures and when he sends his member, something ticks in my head and i get this craving and i want to scream.am i addicted? or is this not going to last? Reply to this Question
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reader, Flashtony  +, writes (10 May 2011):
it's just love.... my girlfriend and I have been like that for two years now, we can't leave each other alone! send pictures, call all the time and hav sex about 8 times a week... on holiday we were at it it about 4 or 5 time. day! if it' not normal.. so what... it's great and so long as you're not cheating it's not a sex addiction.... maybe a love addiction! enjoy... long may it last!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): No your not addicted, me and my boyfriend have been like this for 3 years now, Im also wondering how much longer is gonna last, but we love each other so much and fit so well together that we are always having sex...so continue to enjoy it
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): "not only does he have a huge package"
Over and over women on this site delcare that size doesn't matter, but over and over we get posts proving that size does matter...
I'll never understand women...
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reader, PokerRob +, writes (3 May 2011):
Im sure you have been away from your boyfriend before, and from the sounds of it you have not cheated on him. So your not addicted to sex, just addicted to sex with him, and thats probably because you love him. It may well fade in the future, it does with most people, but there are ways to spice it up. Enjoy it while it lasts :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): It sounds like the 'honeymoon' period is pretty good for you two and healthy as wellUnless you are like this with every man you date or even random strangers, then its just normal and not an addiction
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): I think you might be, but I wouldn't know. I've never been addicted or known anyone addicted. I do think as long as you're not craving sex so much that it's effecting him in a bad way or it causes you to cheat then it should be alright. Also if he decides he's not up for sex, but you force him, it might be an issue. Just watch yourself and if you think you have a problem then see a psychiatrist that specializes in that field. Otherwise as long as he likes it and you like it then I wouldn't worry about it much Cheers!
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reader, Orbiter +, writes (2 May 2011):
Just enjoy it while it lasts as I doubt it will last indefinitely, judging by what other people who been in relationships for many years say. Once the 'honeymoon' stage of the relationship is over I suspect the amount of sex you have will decrease also.It only becomes a problem/addiction if it's negatively affecting your life and despite the fact it's causing so many problems you can still not give it up even if you desperately want to and have tried many times. From what you've written your situation doesn't sound like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): The human body releases hormones during sex that cause everyone to become "addicted" to it to some extent. To my mind, there's no reason to worry about it unless it's interfering with your day-to-day life in a significant way.The one down side is that it makes breaking up painful/difficult if it turns out you are not ultimately compatible with the person in other ways. But, that's life. Besides, where would we be without all those songs about heartbreak?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): You have to ask yourself if this interfering with your daily activities?... let say, you have to go home early from work just to have sex with him, or you can't concentrate in what you are doing because you are thinking about sex.... that is when you know you are addicted to something. If not... and you can postpone it and control it... then you should just enjoy how much attraction you have with him... it will not last forever.. that I know. I just hope you like him for who he is as well, not only the sex. take carecheers
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