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All we do is have sex! Is he serious about me?

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Question - (23 June 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *idey writes:

Does my man really want to really get serious... all we do is have sex....... what should i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009):

Ok DoubleM.. It's been at me for a while.. what is that picture? Is it painted? Is that you?

He looks familiar.. a celebrity?

~SY.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009):

what do you want from this relationship (if this is a proper one) or are you two just f8ck buddies?

well best thing, just ask him what his intentions are and see if he follows through.

not much info here, so cannot give you much suggestions

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A female reader, misswalston United States +, writes (23 June 2009):

misswalston agony auntThat is what most men want initially, and if he is between the ages you specified, yes, he wants sex and lots of it. Now, the real question is that if you find out that that is all he wants, what are YOU going to do...............

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (23 June 2009):

DoubleM agony auntNot much information here. Whenever two are attracted, a lot of sex can be the result, and trust me, it can happen at any age level. That could or should be a good thing, but we all hope that the relationship includes more than that. If there is a lack of conversation, or sharing of interests, or dinners out, or other meaningful time spent together - then such a relationship may be almost exclusively sexual and unlikely to blossom into much more.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009):

simple....dont have sex!!

then you can see what he is really like.

if he loses interest in you, theres your answer

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009):

Honey there aren't a whole lot of details here. I'm afraid it'll quite difficult for a complete stranger to tell you how serious about you your man is.

But do realize, men like sex! Lol. My husband loves me and I know that, but let's face it, when he's home, we wouldn't do anything else if it weren't for my lower sex drive!

If you've told him how the amount of sex you're having makes you feel, then he should respect your feelings. If he knows you feel unloved and still pushed constantly for sex, eventhough he knows what's going on in your mind, then maybe he isn't serious.

You really have to communicate with him or you'll never find out how he feels!

Goodluck!

~SY.

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A female reader, Iris7124 United States +, writes (23 June 2009):

Iris7124 agony auntwell sweetie, u dont give us much of a back story to ur relationship with this man, but to answer ur question if this man doesnt like spending time with you (no sex involved) or doesnt like conversation about getting serious or a possible future together...if all he wants is sex then its probably safe to say he only wants u for sex. therefore if ur not into booty calls, i would say move on to someone who wants more than just sex.

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