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writes:Do you think its possible to be having a midlife crisis at 34??? All of a sudden Im obsessed with my age, mortality and grey hairs...Is this normal for a guy my age? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr T +, writes (15 December 2007):
Dr T is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmm, that does help Anon. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): I am 29 years old female with a family and believe me i have felt similar to you very recently but not in looks in spirituality. According to people i still look 24 and they often get a shock when I mention my child. All of a sudden i feel mature inside and i am asking questions about my life that i didn't before. I also feel like I am having mid life crisis at 29 but not at all about looks cause i know I am safe in that area still but other areas of life. If that makes you feel any better and ohh about your grey hair..don't worry there are plenty of women including myself who go crazy about men with grey hair...but ofcourse they have to be attractive still. I honestly find men with grey hair amazingly sexy...talk about george clooney...hmmm...see what i mean.
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reader, Dr T +, writes (15 December 2007):
Dr T is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat reminds me of Homer Simpson when he said "Marge m'dear, I havent learned a thing"
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reader, Dr T +, writes (11 December 2007):
Dr T is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhmmm... you know what I think it is? Ive been quite lucky with the ladies and now Im noticing that the 20 somethings dont seem to even notice me anymore...oh well, theres always plan B, get em drunk...(kidding)
Thanks guys.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 What is normal?
Normality is a realative condition.
What is normal for one may not be normal for another.
One who is unable to perform feats that they used to at a younger age may begin to feel that they are aging too quickly. They have a tendency to look to younger women to see if they have the same prowess they did when at a younger age etc.
You will find some men who at age sixty still feel as young as they did when they were 25.
In short, in my opinion this is not abnormal for your age. But this too shall pass. Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007): It happens to us all in time, but not at 34, stop whittling and enjoy life! when you get past 50 then start worrying.
Enjoy life, it is too short to worry about stuff like that now.
take care
xxx
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