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writes:~Listening to Bruno Mars- Talking to the moon~ Hello everyone and anyone. i have a story of well my real life heartbreak. Im 25 years old, goodlooking guy. Never really dated seriously too much. Was always the "player". Until one day i met a guy online (myspace) i kno i kno... and bam right there i fell in love with this guy. Great looking said all the right things. We talked via aim, and also phone. We even showed we were so in love with eachother on our myspace pages with cute comments and pic comments. Ok so im not or never was one to meet anyone online... it was just very random... started saying hi... to what are you doing today? to i miss you. I need to see you... i "love you" ~ this went on for 3 months. We talked on the phone daily and nightly. To the point my friends and parents started to notice - "wow hes finally feeling that loving feeling, who would have thought?" and i was BAD. i was crazy about this guy to the point that i ended both of my jobs, sold my jeep, ended my lease short and moved to Boston to be with this guy. All the while he was sooo excited for me to get there and so was i. I got off the airplane called him to pick me up and he never answered nor did he ever come and get me. I stayed in a hotel for 2 weeks, i couldnt bare the embarrassment of coming back home and explaining everything. I was shattered at this point, didnt know why? what happen? is he ok? Did i do something? was this too soon? questions that little did i know would haunt me for the rest of my life i still feel. Anyways i got a server job, got into a summer sublet apartment and made things work. 2 months went by and he called... he explained that he was sooo sorry and just got scared. I wasnt having it. I wouldnt talk to him for weeks. and stupid me in love with this guy called him and asked him to come to my apartment, "lets talk" so i got my haircut, went tanning, bought sum new swag and i sat there at our supposed meeting place in front of Build-a-Bear store. He never showed up. But the calls came every day "i love you" i promise ill meet you" blah blah blah... its been 2 years ive been here in Boston. Havent talked to him in a year and dont know where he is or what hes doing. BUT.. every single day of my life i think about him and wonder... " Was he even real?" the pictures where legit. He had friends who talked to him on myspace who seemed to have known him in real life or was it just a creepy no life person (spam) making fake profiles. But all this for what? to just be able to talk to someone on the phone? to make someone fall in love with you? He changed my whole world. I loved this dude. I have never felt such strong feelings for someone ever, and my first time this happens? I'll be fucked up for life. Always wondering who he is? Is he real? where is he? why did this person do this to me? His Myspace is now gone... the only thing i have left are pictures of him i saved to my computer. Truth is 2 years now and i still look at them almost every day... i think about him every night and every morning. All i want are answers. WHY?
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reader, Lost in the Malestom +, writes (12 December 2010):
 I have to agree with Boonridge, move somewhere else, by staying there, you are still holding a candle for this guy, by keeping anything that reminds you of this guy, you are holding that candle and hoping...let it go... He will never come to you. You need to get over it... I know it may be hard. You are a good man, don't let this experience make you calloused, there is someone out there for you to love and who will love you back with all their heart, you learned from your experience, move on. There is someone for you, go find him...
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reader, ZETACC  +, writes (12 December 2010):
I can relate with what your feeling !! you want to know the truth but by my experience you shall never find out what went wrong unfortunately hes fake with lots of excuses , move on he s not worth it and you deserve better xx gd luck
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 move away from boston- the whole reason you went there was to meet him and you will be stuck in limbo while you live there. place can induce patterns of behaviour and mental states and you need to find new thoughts and a new life to make you happy.
he is not worth talking to ever again, scared my ass! more like a twisted mind game freak.
you will move on and there are lessons you have learnt-
1.people can deceive you and keep doing it in spite of any obvious motivation or gain from them lying
2.you have moved to a new city and made a new life for yourself and made it work successfully
3.life is full of random shit. take charge of your future and make the best of it.
best of luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): ~MOVED TO TEARS~Sweetie, I am soo sorry that this happened to you. Your words literally have me crying as I type you this message.I can't but help to identify with you...You only know how to love...I'm right there with you...Eye to Eye...And you know...I know why you're like this...because you can only know how to covert a negative into a positive...to keep out the negativity...which allows us to carry on daily with that which brings us most fulfilment...making sure others only face happiness...You have a heart like mine.You are beautiful...and...I know people can't relate to why you still love him and why you would never turn your back to him.The song above is perfect.Absolutely touched by your essence and dilemna...Your relationship with the moon is as mine.I hear you too.God Bless.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 I'm not gonna pretend I understand just how crushing that would have been to go through, so I'll just say this:
Delete all the photos you have of him. By holding onto them and looking at them every day you're preserving the memory... but is it a memory worth preserving. You'll feel infinitely better once you cleanse yourself mate.
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reader, SmilySmily  +, writes (11 December 2010):
OMG...while I was reading this,...all i could say was OMG...
I mean fair play to you to fly over and all that, I dont think I could never do that or maybe I haven't met the right person yet! but it was very brave of you!!
I am very disappointed with the ending of this story tho, I wonder what's going on with him...Im guessing maybe everything about him was fake? like pictures and stuffs? and later this mysterious guy also did fall in love but scared that you will leave him when you see who he really is? I am thinkint that he turned up for the place where yee two were meant to meet up few years ago but too scared to come up and talk to you or even say sorry..
Do you have his email address or phone number? You obviously haven't forgt bout him so I think you should just ask him why ...or what is going on really with him? Im actualy dying to know the answer myself here..
Please keep me postd! and Good luck. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2010): No idea. I'll watch this to see what people say.
-T.V.
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