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Ah Breasts, But What to do With Them?

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Article - (31 March 2010) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A female United States age 51-59, bootydoctors writes:

This is a topic so basic, so obvious that I never thought of talking about it before. Now, I’m not professing that just because I HAVE breasts, I know everything there is to know about them. (For instance, I still don’t know why, when I do a shot, my nipples get hard, so if anybody out there knows the physiological reason for that, do tell.) But I thought I’d create here a mini-manual about what to DO with this part of the female anatomy that men and women alike seem to love so much. After all, they never did teach that in sex ed in junior high school, did they? So here goes:

1. First of all, while I realize that you love breasts so much you may want to possessively grab your woman’s breasts anytime the mood strikes you, day or night, please realize yourself that may be the style of “foreplay” you’d enjoy, in general, we women prefer a more gradual approach.

2. The attraction that you have to our breasts, though, is a good place to start. You can start by telling your partner exactly what it is that you appreciate about her breasts. Is it he skin tone, the size of her nipples or areolas? (Areolas are the pigmented circles around the nipples themselves.) Is it the shape of her breasts, or the fact that they jiggle so beautifully when she is “on top”? Whatever it is, it wouldn’t hurt to tell her what it is, specifically, that really turns you on about them. In general, a specific compliment is much more appreciated by a woman than, for example, “nice rack”.

3. In approaching a breast, again, the gradual approach is usually the way to go. Instead of going straight for the nipple, try gently caressing the breast without touching the nipple yet. This can build up the anticipation for her and increase her pleasure. But women tend to be different than men. That’s why you like us.

4. Try now tracing your finger lightly around the circumference of her breast, making ever-smaller circles with your fingertip until you finally reach her nipple. This is where the great majority of her breast sensitivity lies, and conveniently, probably the part you also enjoy touching most!

5. Here’s where there could be great variety not only in how your partner likes to have her nipples stimulated, but in how she may want them to be stimulated in any given moment. Some women may in general prefer a light touch, whether it be with your hands or your mouth, while others may be more of the dark and dangerous type who like the rough touch.

6. Some examples of gentle touch could be light touching with one fingertip, licking with the tongue, or even gentle nibbling. Examples of rough touch would be pinching the nipples, sucking them hard, or biting them hard.

7. Don’t feel the need to be a mind reader. Ask her how she would like her nipples to be touched. This may, as I said, vary from woman to woman, or from moment to moment. For instance, a woman’s breasts tend to be sore and needing a gentler touch prior to her menstrual cycle, or if she is in a feisty mood she may enjoy a rougher touch than usual.

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