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writes:hi my boyfriend is 20 and i'm 15 when i turn 16 in two months he'll be 21. i love him deaply and never wanna see anything bad happen to him. i know what we are doing is not right in the laws eyes but to us it is. i know he could get in trouble and he knows it to but he doesnt want to give us up. i don't too but at the same time should i be the one to let go for him. is it being selfish to keep him for myself even if he wants to be here? Reply to this Question
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reader, HisLadyLove +, writes (20 January 2009):
HisLadyLove is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well a way way way big thanks to the people who understand where i'm coming from. This was not something easy for me to ask about for the fact i thought some people might judge but for the most part you understood. So thank you to all who did. And to the person who thinks its wrong i still have to say thanks for you oppinion, but it really dosen't matter. i love him and these people are right love is love, you can't control it. So once again thanks
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reader, rubyr13  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 age difference does not matter im dating a guy 5 years older than me and we still love eachother deeply and dont think of it as you being selfish. u just love him and he loves you and then is definatly not a bad or selfish thing to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): What the last guy replied is sooo right! Take his advice!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): Dont talk crap. Age difference doesnt matter. Da gal i love is 5years younger than me,she s my first love and as for me,she ll probably be da last one too. And i know how much i love her. So nobody should take age gap as a problem in love. People who talks so,doesnt understand love at all. Love is sth i can describe in words.
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reader, SebastePistis +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Important question to ask yourself:Do you think you're the first one to be with him with this kind of age difference?He's an adult and should be able to resist temptation long enough for everything to be legal between you and him. If he can't, that says everything you need to know about him.Personally, your question kind of creeps me out - what 21 year old man needs to be with a girl that's still almost young enough to get the kids' menu at a restaurant?Good luck.
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