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Is it possible to go from just 'loving' him to falling 'in love' with him?

Q.   Just wondering if after 4 years, you can learn to love your partner? I love him, but just dont feel 'in love' with him. I dont know if this is something i can change. I often think about other men and dont visualise a future with my partner. I ...

A.   19 January 2009: From someone who's gone the other way on this one - from being 'in love' to merely 'loving' their partner - I can say that the likelihood is that you won't connect with this person on the deep level that you want to. I've realized over the years t... (read in full...)

Can men hold their cum in??????

Q.   I have several questions because I asked my friend and it was totally confusing what he said. So if a guy cums while in intercourse, you can get pregnant right? So how long do you have to take birth control or is there anything else ? Also, ...

A.   19 January 2009: If you're too poor to puchase condoms, you're too poor to be having sex. Orgasms lead to a release of semen, but there's also pre-cum - a drop of semen that lubricates during sex and also contains sperm. It is technically possible to become p... (read in full...)

Sex is boring & I want him to stop

Q.   ok so ive been having sex for 2 months now and i dont seem 2 enjoy penetration like i get bored and just want him 2 stop... can anyone help me with this.. and also why is it when i get this feeling i dont think its a orgasim but im not sure ...

A.   19 January 2009: Pardon me for being blunt, but do you ever masturbate? A big part of sex is mental - foreplay, touching, being sensual, setting a mood. If it's rushed or is always the same thing (one position, same situation over and over) then sex can in fact ... (read in full...)

Age???

Q.   hi my boyfriend is 20 and i'm 15 when i turn 16 in two months he'll be 21. i love him deaply and never wanna see anything bad happen to him. i know what we are doing is not right in the laws eyes but to us it is. i know he could get in trouble and ...

A.   19 January 2009: Important question to ask yourself: Do you think you're the first one to be with him with this kind of age difference? He's an adult and should be able to resist temptation long enough for everything to be legal between you and him. If he can'... (read in full...)

Confusion about God

Q.   well i gots an issue... im usually a very religious person but now im so confused about god and life and everything i love the most (acting,singing,ect) i cant take anything any more... now to my real problem. I have one person telling me on thing ...

A.   19 January 2009: The problem might very well be that you're starting to see the difference between being 'spiritual' and being 'religious'. It's very likely that you enjoy the social outlet of being at church as well as being a part of the praise band. I've ne... (read in full...)

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