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*asquerade711
writes:Alright, here we go.Well, I met this guy a couple months ago...we met through a mutual friend. Anyways, we really hit it off, had a couple dates, fooled around a little bit (a LITTLE bit), and talked all the time. Now, things have changed. Every time I ask him if he wants to do something or hang out or whatever, he says he's busy, working, doing school stuff, etc. I asked him why he was always too busy for me, asked him if he'd lost interest, and he said that it had nothing to do with any of that, that he wanted to be with me but it's just a busy year for him.Someone tell me...is he bull sh*tting me? Or could there maybe be some truth to what he says? Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 My dear Masq, he is bullshitting you. Check this: if you were really, really interested in someone, would you not find a gap in your busy schedule to be with him? Wouldn't you fear losing this guy because you're too busy? Apparently, he does not fear losing you. And, he is willing to wait an entire year before he meets with you again.
Perhaps he wasn't interested in anything but a little bit of fooling around?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): He's right, its not you. Think this guy is keeping his options open. I think you need to find out where you stand. If there is no point in you hanging round for him then at least you will know and move on.
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